There can’t be anything worse than feeling a general disconnect. Disconnect from friends, families, partners and even the world around us. So many times we are in search of techniques and material things to help us connect again with the world. The problem is that none of these things actually bring you close to another human being. When was the last time you allowed yourself to be vulnerable, to be touched, to be desired, indulged, and to feel loved and wanted? When was the last time you truly allowed yourself to connect with another human being?
One of the hardest things to do, it seems, is to let go and truly allow yourself to connect with someone. It’s normal as we’ve been taught that this can lead to many bad things happening in our lives. We’re scared of connecting because we don’t know how to. We’ve been taught through our lives not to let our feelings show or to experience new pleasures without feeling guilt. That tension that we build to keep our fellow human beings out is the first thing a modern practitioner of Tantra has to get rid of. The truth is connecting is easy and it can bring you so much pleasure and this tension disconnects us from those we love. This tension has created patterns in our body that continue to create more tension and disconnect.
A Tantric lover is dedicated to consistently unwinding the tensions of daily life so they can tune in to this subtlety. It opens up a listening where your body can ‘hear’ what it needs in order to open more and what your lover needs in order to go deeper. You need to be open to it and it’s a Tantric lover’s duty and pleasure to help you open up, to break down your walls of tension and allow you to experience your sensuality completely and unabashed.
It can be that simple.
If you are interested in embarking on your own journey to tune into this level of sensitivity, I encourage you to make an appointment with London Tantric or Minx Massage and start the journey of sensual awakening you’ve so been craving.