Being shy is one of the reasons that many people come to tantric massages from agencies like Minx (available at http://minxmassage.com/our_locations/mayfair/25). There are indeed plenty of reasons that range from physical problems to simple boredom but many men are actually scared of their shyness. Maybe it’s because they are expected to be outgoing, to be the one who asks the girl out, to be the one to do everything first and to do it with confidence and have it be flawlessly executed. In our society shyness has become a symbol of weakness and a symbol of sensitivity and none of these things are associated with masculinity.
So, when a man comes for a tantric massage in Mayfair and wants us to deal with his shyness a lot of times we have to explain that shyness isn’t a problem. In fact, a shy man is the same as a shy woman, someone simply not as outgoing as some other people and that’s not a bad thing. You don’t need to fit a mold to be sexy; you don’t need to be the life of the part or the hippest guy in the club. What you need to be is daring and to have a little courage every now and then. Tantric massages are wonderful for shy men because they get to experience their bodies in ways they didn’t know they could. They learn that their shyness is not a symptom of something bad and to use it for their benefit when they feel like they want to pursue a woman and shyness in bed can be dealt with simply by relaxing. If a man feels relaxed enough around a woman then he can let himself enjoy the moment even if he is shy.
Shyness is not something tantric massages take from a person but something that a tantric masseuse teaches their client to use to their advantage and to milk for all its worth. Sometimes the shy and mysterious guy stands out way more than just another one of the bunch.